The No. 1 Worst Time-Killer

I’m addicted to Instagram. I’ve always known this, but it became even more apparent when, on a recent holiday in Fiji, I struggled to spend three days without Wi-Fi (my partner’s idea — ugh).

Instagram in and of itself is not the problem. The problem is the amount of time I spend on it, mindlessly scrolling through image after image. So now I’m making a concerted effort to limit my Instagram usage.

But, according to Mark, there’s an even worse time-killer than social media — and it grips all of us at some point. Below, Mark reveals what this terrible time-killer is, plus 10 tips to keep it at bay.

Slow Down to Smell the Roses
By Mark Ford

If you want to not only achieve your goals but also have time to enjoy the ‘little’ things in life, you need to eliminate your energy-sapping time-killers. There are obvious time-killers — like watching TV, playing video games, and surfing the net. But the worst one is stress.

Why is stress a time-killer? Because it fills your otherwise productive hours with unpleasant, unhelpful thoughts and feelings. As a result, anything you can do to reduce stress will give you more time.

That said, here are some stress-busting suggestions inspired by Ilene Birkwood’s Stress for Success, and The Guide to Managing Stress by J Robin Powell.

1. Identify your stressors

Make a list of the stressful things you encounter on a daily basis: people who are late, long lines, inconsiderate drivers, juggling your kids’ afterschool activities, etc. After you complete the list, take a few minutes to look it over. You will find that you can completely eliminate many of these stressors. For instance, to get a head start on making dinner, or to just take a few minutes for yourself, you can enlist another parent to drive your daughter to soccer practice. If you manage to trim down the list by even two or three items, you will have significantly reduced your level of stress.

2. Identify — and make time for — your favourite pastimes

Make a list of the things you enjoy doing most: fishing, listening to music, writing poetry, etc. Are you taking time to do these things? If not, why not? Remember, balance in life is very important. Taking an occasional break to do something that gives you pleasure will increase your level of happiness and provide you with much-needed stress relief.

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3. De-stress your diet

Lack of proper nourishment accelerates cell degeneration in the brain and creates stress in your body. Good nutrition helps you physiologically deal better with stress. You can build healthy eating habits by following three general rules: reduce your intake of calories from fat and meat; double your intake of calories from vegetables, fruits and whole grains; and lower the amount of meat you eat while adding more fish or vegetable protein, like nuts, peas, beans and lentils.

4. Exercise

Exercise can truly relax you. So make it your goal to exercise at least three times a week by doing something you enjoy. This is important because, if you enjoy the activity, you’ll be more likely to make it a habit. Another consideration: Choose an exercise that is invigorating and doesn’t add to your stress. Even if you love racquetball, for instance, it may be a bad choice for you because it is such an intense (and therefore exhausting) game.

My advice is to do yoga every morning for 15 minutes — and then another 15 minutes of exercise later in the day. That’s all you need to be flexible, fit, and feel good.

It’s also good to have a physical hobby — a sport like tennis or jiu-jitsu, which you enjoy at least once a week. But don’t count that as exercise, because it’s not. It’s fun.

5. Get a good night’s rest

Lack of sleep (or lack of restful, non-REM sleep) can add to your stress. Doing something that relaxes you before bed — maybe listening to soothing music or taking a bath — will help you fall asleep, and sleep deeply and restfully. It also helps to give yourself plenty of time to digest a heavy meal and avoid alcohol, arguments, and any stimulating mental or physical activity before bedtime.

6. Take regular work breaks

When you feel particularly stressed at work, take a short break. In fact, don’t wait for that to happen. At least once an hour, get up from your chair and walk around your office or down the hall — maybe even take a little trip outside. Get a glass of water or take a minute to stretch. This will revive you and allow you to approach your work with renewed enthusiasm.

7. Laugh

Laughter is one of the best ways to release stress. Regularly expose yourself to things and people that make you laugh.

8. Have realistic expectations

Things don’t run smoothly 100% of the time. People are late for meetings. Traffic slows to a standstill. Your son’s trumpet lesson lasts 20 extra minutes.

9. Leave your work at work

If you consistently bring work home with you, you will be a prime candidate for burnout. Reserve your time away from the office for relaxation, recreation, and your family.

10. Make a big change

Sometimes you can resolve or eliminate stress only by making a major change. If you feel constantly overwhelmed and anxious at work, perhaps you need to rethink your career goals. Major changes like this should not be approached lightly. They may, in fact, cause stress of their own in the short term. But if the long-term benefits could greatly outweigh the immediate stress, it’s something to seriously consider.

One more thing…

There’s one more technique I’d like to give you to help you slow down and increase your enjoyment of life. This is not a new technique — there are spiritualists, physical fitness gurus, and yogis who have been teaching it for thousands of years. It’s stayed alive because it works. And it works because it draws from the most fundamental human activity: breathing.

To appreciate how important breathing is to you, do this: Put your head under water and hold your breath for as long as possible. Make several attempts to go as long as you possibly can.

Now consider this: That’s how long you could maintain consciousness (even life) without being able to breathe.

So take a full breath right now, and enjoy. Consider how amazing it is that you keep breathing without any conscious effort…and that you have been breathing, more or less without interruption, for your entire life. At an average rate of about 12 breaths per minute, that’s 720 per hour, 17,280 per day, and 6,307,200 per year. That amounts to over a quarter of a billion opportunities to appreciate your life in a 40-year timespan!

Promise yourself that you will never again take breathing for granted. Spend at least a few minutes every morning and evening consciously practicing breathing — enjoying the miracle of each inhalation, and the relaxation possible with each exhalation.

And, during the day, when you get into stressful situations, count your breaths — but count them consciously and gratefully.

Today’s action plan

I remember how much my father wanted extra time when he was dying. And I know how much my friend, who’s struggling with cancer now, would give to gain some extra time. He too is thinking in terms of years or months.

But maybe he doesn’t have to think that way. Maybe he can extend the life he has — however long it may be — by making it feel longer. By savouring every moment. By measuring it with nature’s metronome…breathing.

Try it now. Close your eyes and imagine that you are locked in an airtight chamber and have only two minutes to live. Rather than panicking away those precious moments, enjoy each breath that you have. Breathe in. Breathe out. This is the essential gift of life. Be thankful for it.


Thanks, Mark. That’s certainly the most ‘New Age’ essay I’ve seen from you in a while.

So many of those points ring true for me, though, especially number four. It’s amazing what a post-work, 30-minute run does for my stress levels. Kind of like an after-work cocktail — except it’s good for you!

Michelle Hammond,
For Markets & Money

Editor’s Note: Mark has spent more than three decades dispensing wisdom like this…and now he’s compiled it into the most comprehensive wealth-building program in existence…

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Working alongside Wealth Builders Club founder and multimillionaire Mark Ford, Michelle was the Director of Wealth Builders Club Australia, which launched in 2014 and now has members nationwide. Wealth Builders Club Australia has four main aims for its members: kill debt, cut spending and live rich, open up multiple streams of income, and invest ‘unconventionally’ to secure cash flow in retirement. Prior to working with Mark, Michelle worked as a business journalist, focusing on Australian start-ups.

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